For the Parents

While working with customers, we’re constantly learning about their needs and managing inquiries that arise. As a result, we’ve included a list of frequently asked questions along with answers in order to provide additional support. If your question isn’t addressed below, get in touch with us and we’ll provide the information you need.

Having your daughter join a sorority may be concerning to some parents or may be very familiar to others. No matter your situation, we are hoping to make this process as easy and understandable as possible.

There are many positives that come out of Greek Life and we hope that your daughter can see them for herself. This includes everything from lifelong friendships, to scholastic achievements, to student involvement and philanthropic service, to networking and careers after graduation, to self confidence and independence. Every women's experience is different and unique and your support is of utmost importance.

If you have any questions or further concerns, feel free to contact any officer or the Greek Life Office at Greeklife@utoledo.edu or 419-530-4036

Commonly Asked Questions

Q. What is the time commitment like?

A. The time commitment generally varies from chapter to chapter and from new member to new member, but you can expect your students to invest more time in her sorority during their first semester as they go through the new member education program. New member education focuses on learning the history and facts about the organizations, developing leadership and time management skills and spending time to get to know their new sisters. Although it can be Intensive, it should not interfere with academic commitments. If you have concerns about the time your student is putting into his/her chapter, do not hesitate to contact out office.

Q. Who runs fraternities and sororities?

A. Students of each chapter elect their own officers to manage the day-to-day operations of the organization. These officers are assisted by the chapter members serving on committees and alumni who serve as advisors to the officers and general chapter members. Chapter facilities are owned by The University of Toledo but are overseen by a house corporation that oversees the facilities management and operations. Each chapter is governed by its national or international headquarters and governing council on campus. Additionally the Fraternity and Sorority life staff supports and advises the governing council, Greek Boards, chapter officers and advisors.

Q. Why are there some things fraternity and sorority members can't talk about?

A. Fraternity and sorority member often participate in ceremonies while becoming an active member of the organization. These ceremonies are referred to as rituals. Fraternities and sororities pride themselves on rituals that their chapters were founded on. These rituals are full of traditions and values that make the chapter unique, having been conducted for many years. These rituals should not be confused with hazing and other inappropriate activities.

Q. What does it mean to be a new member?

A. The new member period is a time for students to bond with other new members as well as active members while learning about the organizations history and goals. Some new member classes elect officers, hold weekly meetings, organize study halls, plan activities and more.

Q. As a family member, how can I support my student?

A. It is important for family members to continue to be a support system for their student. One of the key components for the support is empowering students as the navigate the sorority and fraternity experience. Encouraging your student to gather as much information as possible before they make their decision to join an organization. It is important that you discuss the financial obligations and the time commitment before your student enters a recruitment or intake process with a fraternity or sorority. This will be an exciting time in your student's life and your support will be invaluable.